If you're not paying attention, complacency will sneak into your relationship and quickly ruin all the time and effort you have put in. Eventually, your partner will start feeling like he or she isn't getting enough attention or that you don't care, even though that may not be the case.

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I have certainly had my fair share of this in previous relationships, and I don't wish that feeling of unhappiness upon anyone.

A way to avoid becoming too comfortable and complacent in your relationship is to set weekly, monthly and yearly goals.

A lot of us jump into relationships with a vague idea of what we want out of them, and that's where most of the issues start.

Without a clear understanding of where the both of you are headed, you tend to just go through the motions of everyday life, and you ultimately become bored and complacent with each other.

But what is going to make a potential hook-up banish you into the abyss of the left swipe?

According to a new study by Tinder, wearing glasses in your profile photos will reduce your chances of a right swipe. Instead of having specs appeal, wearing glasses could reduce the chances of finding ‘true love’ by 12 per cent, which is a pretty substantial percentage for something we had never really considered before.

You might be a sapiosexual if you're attracted to smart people and value intelligence over looks.

Sapiosexual isn't just a buzzy word popping up on people's Ok Cupid profiles, it's a real thing.

But why would this make people think twice about swiping right? If you’re happily coupled up, you’ve probably helped your single girlfriends swipe through the reams of desirable – and not so desirable – potential dates.

Dating expert Dr Jessica Carbino, who studied the findings for Tinder, explained that it’s all to do with being able to see the eyes of a potential partner – something which is crucial to finding someone attractive or not. Either way, you Research shows that there are 50 million active users on Tinder who check their accounts 11 times per day and spend an average of 90 minutes per day on the app. When it first came onto the scene, it was used more as a hook-up/no strings sex app because it finds you potential matches based on their proximity to you. It finds your location using GPS, then uses your Facebook information to create your profile but don’t worry – nothing about Tinder will ever be posted to Facebook.

Chelsea, a 25-year-old Manhattanite who has been both a ghost and a ghostee says the fast-paced, onto-the-next mentality of online dating makes the need for an "it's not me, it's you," conversation irrelevant.