These guys, who are, like me, probably 7’s in looks and 9’s in intelligence, just can’t help but to go for women who are 9’s in looks, but 5’s in emotional intelligence/compatibility. Most of us take the futile route of trying to change the second one – “How do I MAKE him like me? ” “He doesn’t know what’s good for him.” But, as we’ve established a few hundred times on this blog, you can’t change anyone else’s thinking. To be fair, it’s possible to “make” someone like you by becoming a more desirable catch – there’s no doubt that a man who earns more money, gains more confidence, and gets more experience will have a more positive dating life. And as the furor about Lori Gottlieb’s Marry Him proved, nothing pisses women off more than the suggestion that they may be somewhat responsible for being single. There are tons of 38-year-old male Ivy-League educated lawyers who just can’t find a single woman good enough for him.You may feel that talking about your diagnosis and treatment is too personal to share immediately.

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The reason I’m bringing this up is that I made a CHOICE to find an amazing partner and create an amazing life – and all I had to do was give up that IMAGE that I’d had of dating a woman who was Just. And that something is this: If a 42-year-old man says that he’s ONLY attracted to 9’s and 10’s who are in their late 20’s, that’s fabulous.

But if NONE of the 9’s and 10’s he covets are interested in him in return, it only makes sense that this man needs to recalibrate his dating options.

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These may affect their dating and sexual relationships.

It’s normal to have fears and concerns about dating and sexual intimacy.

You can wait until the development of a mutual level of trust before sharing your story.

Or, you may feel that not telling a date about your cancer may feel dishonest or insincere.

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