I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.

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I'm fond of life and its natural form, I enjoy forests, fresh air, sunrise and sunsets and so on. I am a simple person who seems to have grown up in a different time. I like to have fun, whether it be going out, or staying at home.

It inspire me and makes me believe that life is more beautiful and not so sad as we think. I was married 17 years, single for 9 years now and would like to find someone to enjoy the simple things in life with. I'm looking for a relationship, and perhaps more in the future.

Maybe you're lonely, horny, you want a girlfriend, need some company, or just need to get laid. We ALL want love, but some guys blow it by rushing.

GF #1: "There seems to be some kind of 'trying on of a girlfriend.' On the first date, I've had a guy take my hand and rub my shoulders, without any words of seduction or romance.

‘Men want someone who is fertile but who doesn’t want children just yet,’ she continued.

‘So they want women in their late 20s or early 30s.– – –See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World– – –One of the more rewarding things my Partner Jacqueline and I do is speak to cancer survivors and their partners around the country about regaining intimacy in the face of their cancer.Last Wednesday evening I was speaking to such a group in the wonderful town of Blue Ash, Ohio.Whenever I was between boyfriends in the past, I would just enjoy life until another man came along — through work, mutual friends or our eyes meeting across a crowded room.But when I phoned a dating agency eight months ago, everything had taken on a new sense of urgency. ‘Haven’t you found yourself a husband yet, Bridgey? But don’t look desperate — men hate that.’ I went speed-dating, online-dating, wine-tasting dating, quiz-dating and dinner-dating.I turned up a few minutes late for one date to find that the guy had already ordered and eaten dinner without me, and I booked myself on a climbing holiday with 14 fit men, only to discover halfway up the highest mountain in North Africa that they were all married.