A few weeks ago, I wrote about Transitionals, people that are recently broken up, separated, divorced, or widowed and are still emotionally and possibly legally tied to their ex.If you get involved, you end up being a Buffer, an emotional airbag that lessens the impact of their transition caused by the end of their previous relationship.

This is a simple form of distraction that numbs you from feeling the pain of losing a committed relationship, and it really makes a lot of sense — who to feel the full force of heartbreak?

Additionally, once the divorce is finalized and you are really on your own, it can be very intimidating.

However, a stud-for-hire is exactly what Asia Carpenter is looking for.

The career-minded PR Crisis Manager is completely blindsided when her ideal man dumps her for another woman, leaving her with a broken heart..the bill for her engagement ring.

The self-declared relationship advisor specializes in “counseling” women who have just ended long-term relationships. Most importantly, he excels in the fine art of making ex-boyfri Guy Rule #1: Never date a woman on the rebound... The self-declared relationship advisor specializes in “counseling” women who have just ended long-term relationships. Most importantly, he excels in the fine art of making ex-boyfriends jealous.

He treats them like queens, all with the purpose of rebuilding their self-confidence. He treats them like queens, all with the purpose of rebuilding their self-confidence.

The quicker they can tie themselves up with someone else is the faster they can feel ‘right’ again.

Particularly for marriages or long term relationships, they may be struggling with comprehending the ending or be worried about how they ‘look’.

It’s truly a gut wrenching feeling to think of your ex with someone else, especially if you are still in love with them and want to get them back.

And the thought of it just being a rebound relationship is very comforting.

You have to get them over their ex which is why they don’t get over them and why you can’t enjoy your own relationship because you’re living in someone’s shadow. They hate feeling that they’ve made a mistake or failed.